May 2008


Bukan… thread ini bukan berisi copasan dari about me halaman lain dari blog ini… About me disini didapat dari sebuah test psikologi yang disebut Jung Test… dan dari sekian banyak test psikologi yang penulis pernah dapatkan, hasil test ini hampir luar biasa tepat bagi kasus penulis tentunya… Berikut hasilnya…

Overview hasil Jung test ku:

The Visionary

As an ENTP, your primary mode of living is focused externally, where you take things in primarily via your intuition. Your secondary mode is internal, where you deal with things rationally and logically.

With Extraverted Intuition dominating their personality, the ENTP’s primary interest in life is understanding the world that they live in. They are constantly absorbing ideas and images about the situations they are presented in their lives. Using their intuition to process this information, they are usually extremely quick and accurate in their ability to size up a situation. With the exception of their ENFP cousin, the ENTP has a deeper understanding of their environment than any of the other types.

This ability to intuitively understand people and situations puts the ENTP at a distinct advantage in their lives. They generally understand things quickly and with great depth. Accordingly, they are quite flexible and adapt well to a wide range of tasks. They are good at most anything that interests them. As they grow and further develop their intuitive abilities and insights, they become very aware of possibilities, and this makes them quite resourceful when solving problems.

ENTPs are idea people. Their perceptive abilities cause them to see possibilities everywhere. They get excited and enthusiastic about their ideas, and are able to spread their enthusiasm to others. In this way, they get the support that they need to fulfill their visions.

ENTPs are less interested in developing plans of actions or making decisions than they are in generating possibilities and ideas. Following through on the implementation of an idea is usually a chore to the ENTP. For some ENTPs, this results in the habit of never finishing what they start. The ENTP who has not developed their Thinking process will have problems with jumping enthusiastically from idea to idea, without following through on their plans. The ENTP needs to take care to think through their ideas fully in order to take advantage of them.

The ENTP’s auxiliary process of Introverted Thinking drives their decision making process. Although the ENTP is more interested in absorbing information than in making decisions, they are quite rational and logical in reaching conclusions. When they apply Thinking to their Intuitive perceptions, the outcome can be very powerful indeed. A well-developed ENTP is extremely visionary, inventive, and enterprising.

ENTPs are fluent conversationalists, mentally quick, and enjoy verbal sparring with others. They love to debate issues, and may even switch sides sometimes just for the love of the debate. When they express their underlying principles, however, they may feel awkward and speak abruptly and intensely.

The ENTP personality type is sometimes referred to the “Lawyer” type. The ENTP “lawyer” quickly and accurately understands a situation, and objectively and logically acts upon the situation. Their Thinking side makes their actions and decisions based on an objective list of rules or laws. If the ENTP was defending someone who had actually committed a crime, they are likely to take advantage of quirks in the law that will get their client off the hook. If they were to actually win the case, they would see their actions as completely fair and proper to the situation, because their actions were lawful. The guilt or innocence of their client would not be as relevant. If this type of reasoning goes uncompletely unchecked by the ENTP, it could result in a character that is perceived by others as unethical or even dishonest. The ENTP, who does not naturally consider the more personal or human element in decision making, should take care to notice the subjective, personal side of situations. This is a potential problem are for ENTPs. Although their logical abilities lend strength and purpose to the ENTP, they may also isolate them from their feelings and from other people.

The least developed area for the ENTP is the Sensing-Feeling arena. If the Sensing areas are neglected, the ENTP may tend to not take care of details in their life. If the Feeling part of themself is neglected, the ENTP may not value other people’s input enough, or may become overly harsh and aggressive.

Under stress, the ENTP may lose their ability to generate possibilities, and become obsessed with minor details. These details may seem to be extremely important to the ENTP, but in reality are usually not important to the big picture.

In general, ENTPs are upbeat visionaries. They highly value knowledge, and spend much of their lives seeking a higher understanding. They live in the world of possibilities, and become excited about concepts, challenges and difficulties. When presented with a problem, they’re good at improvising and quickly come up with a creative solution. Creative, clever, curious, and theoretical, ENTPs have a broad range of possibilities in their lives.

Jungian functional preference ordering for ENTP:

Dominant: Extraverted Intuition
Auxiliary: Introverted Thinking
Tertiary: Extraverted Feeling
Inferior: Introverted Sensing

Careers for ENTP Personality Types


ENTPs generally have the following traits:

  • Project-oriented
  • Enjoy generating ideas and theories
  • Creative and ingenius
  • Bright and capable
  • Flexible and Diverse
  • Excellent communication skills
  • Enjoy debating issues with other people
  • Excellent people skills
  • Natural leaders, but do not like to control people
  • Resist being controlled by people
  • Lively and energetic; able to motivate others
  • Highly value knowledge and competence
  • Logical, rational thinkers
  • Able to grasp difficult concepts and theories
  • Enjoy solving difficult problems
  • Dislike confining schedules and environments
  • Dislike routine, detailed tasks

ENTPs are fortunate in that they have a wide range of capabilities. They are generally good at anything which has captured their interest. ENTPs are likely to be successful in many different careers. Since they have a lot of options open to them, ENTPs will do well to choose professions which allow them a lot of personal freedom where they can use their creativity to generate new ideas and solve problems. They will not be completely happy in positions which are regimented or confining.

The following list of professions is built on our impressions of careers which would be especially suitable for an ENTP. It is meant to be a starting place, rather than an exhaustive list. There are no guarantees that any or all of the careers listed here would be appropriate for you, or that your best career match is among those listed.

Possible Career Paths for the ENTP:

  • Lawyers
  • Psychologists
  • Entrepreneurs
  • Photographers
  • Consultants
  • Engineers
  • Scientists
  • Actors
  • Sales Representatives
  • Marketing Personnel
  • Computer Programmer, Systems Analyst, or Computer Specialist

ENTP Personal Growth


written by contributing author Robert G. Heyward

What does Success mean to an ENTP?

ENTP personalities are motivated by possibilities. They love the outside chances; the new or unusual combinations lurking within the ordinary everyday world of things and ideas. For them, something is always on the up, something is always tantalizing their desire to re-orchestrate life into new patterns and shapes; new ways of fulfilling what can be as strong as a never ending desire to beat the odds and win at every game in town, or as mild as a quirky personal need for constant variety and change. With their thinking tied to the myriad possibilities they see in the world, they act swiftly and decisively upon those angles, choices and combinations scarcely noticed by other types, but through which they can build whole new frameworks or completely redefine an existing external situation in such a way that it appears new, revitalized and once again full of promise. Sameness, stasis, conservatism – even daily routine – can be loathsome to fervent ENTPs, whose drive is always to be into something new, different and full of fresh possibilities, and who, given the opportunity, will always be the first to show others a new path to success in a venture, or to find a way of doing something that no-one has done before.

ENTP people measure their success by their “aha” moments, by the sense of satisfaction which comes as they spread their newly written maps before them and contemplate the new adventure, design, investigation or conquest which has now become their road ahead. What has gone before, previous achievements, ways of living – even people met along the way – are often now forgotten or considered passé, mere steps along a path which has now brought a new frontier to be exploited for its gifts. Whether it is the search for knowledge, money, power, fame or pleasure, the ENTP will be found at the frontline, gazing into the distance and discovering new avenues toward, bigger, better or more satisfying outcomes.

ENTPs are the great problem solvers, discoverers and re-inventors of the world. Their insights into the world around them, their ability to see new ways of putting things together and making them work can bring them great success in virtually any industry or human pursuit that interests them. For this reason the ENTP is happiest in situations where they can use their intuitive powers freely and have the space in which to think upon the aspects and angles which come to them. Without fulfilling work and the freedom to use their mind most productively, ENTPs can quickly tire of a limiting situation. For this reason an open road toward success is an extremely important factor in the ENTPs life. Some, given a little opportunity, will clear one for themselves, but of all the types, it is the ENTP who has most need to be aware of the life and career situations they might commit to without sufficient thought for the future.

Allowing Your ENTP Strengths to Flourish

As an ENTP, you have gifts that are specific to your personality type that aren’t natural strengths for other types. By recognizing your special gifts and encouraging their growth and development, you will more readily see your place in the world, and be more content with your role.

Nearly all ENTPs will recognize the following characteristics in themselves. They should embrace and nourish these strengths:

· The ability to hold many points of view in mind and see their differing merits.

· Seeing ways to do things others have not thought of.

· Able to give quick and diverse answers to any question of interest.

· Seeing the other side of a situation and making it known.

· Being able to juggle many differing jobs or processes at the one time.

· Easily capable of holding your own in any argument or discussion.

· The ability to quickly find the best or most useful side of others.

· Seeing the many connections between events and things which are not immediately obvious to others.

ENTPs who have developed their Introverted Thinking to the extent that they regularly and carefully interpret the information their Extraverted Intuition brings to them will enjoy these very special gifts:

· The ability to solve puzzles and problems that have no obvious way to resolution.

· The ability to define schematically a new structure or design and know it will work.

· Knowing and giving to others the very thing they need when they are not sure themselves.

· A talent for innovative creation in writing, music or the visual arts.

· The gift of knowing which new ideas or changes will enhance rather than detract from their relationships with others

Potential Problem Areas

With any gift of strength, there is an associated weakness. Without “bad”, there would be no “good”. Without “difficult”, there would be no “easy”. We value our strengths, but we often curse and ignore our weaknesses. To grow as a person and get what we want out of life, we must not only capitalize upon our strengths, but also face our weaknesses and deal with them. That means taking a hard look at our personality type’s potential problem areas.

Most of the weaker characteristics that are found in ENTPs are due to their dominant function of Extraverted Intuition overtaking the personality to the point that the other functions exist merely to serve its purposes. In such cases, an ENTP may show some or all of the following weaknesses in varying degrees:

· The inability to maintain a comfortable situation or relationship once its possibilities have been realized or exhausted.

· A tendency to consider careful or meticulous thinkers as unworthy plodders or time wasters.

· Blindness to the needs and feelings of others not directly involved in the ENTP’s current area of interest.

· A lack of sensitivity to the feelings and ways of those who might need reassurance, security or commitment.

· The inability to deal carefully and calmly with the finer details of a situation or work in progress.

· Becoming overly annoyed by minor setbacks or small things that have to be set right before the goal can be realized.

· A tendency to be arrogant or boastful, or to demean those who cannot see the same answers.

· Can often find themselves in bad situations by too quickly taking a big step forward or by being “too smart for their own good”.

Explanation of Problems

Nearly all of the problematic characteristics described above can be attributed in various degrees to the common ENTP problem of being so fascinated with their Extroverted Intuitions that they fail to develop a careful thinking process sufficient to balance it. Leaps of perception, new ideas and strange but fascinating juxtapositions are wonderful for the potential freshness and possible success they might bring. But if not carefully appraised and chosen wisely they can also take us far from the right path in life, take us from our friends, spoil our relationships and even bring personal or financial disaster. Without a well developed thinking function, the ENTP is always in danger of leaping over social, financial and personal constraints for the sake of following a new vision. This might be as simple as arousing the wrath of ones partner by suddenly deciding to by an expensive gadget or change something around the house without being concerned for their input or feelings, or as complex as allowing an ill considered entrepreneurial idea lead them into financial and social disaster, simply because the one sided vision of Extroverted Intuition does not recognize or count the amount of small but important details which need to be right before such ideas can be realized.

Without a solid thinking function, the ENTP can easily discount or fail to notice the essential ethics of social and interpersonal relationship, often considering themselves “above” or untouched by such limiting values and often discounting the possibility that their actions might be or hurtful or seen as unethical by others. It is not that the one sided ENTP is deliberately hurtful, but simply ignorant of the effects which can flow from their often compulsive need for change or need to show how clever or individual they are. In the ENTP, the lack of a well developed Feeling Function means that they must learn to “understand” feeling in both themselves and others and come to terms with its affects. This understanding can only come from thinking carefully about the ways feeling affects not only themselves, but others, and the importance others place on this function. The ENTP has a feeling function more or less global in character and one which does not judge fine differences. This inability to discriminate feelings can allow the ENTP to say and do much that leaves others in the cold, so an effort to think about the feeling process can be essential. Without the understanding this brings, the ENTP can separate themselves from the ground of their life, from the constancy of their friends and family and, without even realizing it, they can easily find themselves in untenable positions where, without support, they wonder why they are suddenly alone and lost.

Another significant problem arises where the ENTP has grown within or is locked by circumstances to an environment which limits their freedom or their ability to utilize their specific abilities. This forces the ENTP to narrow down their intuitive process to the point where it retains at least some freedom to operate within their life. Under such conditions however, the intuition is free only to range over a small and limited field of vision, a field which usually consists only of the very things the ENTP is normally unconcerned about: the small details of life and its familiar objects. Without the ability to take stock and apply careful thought to the ways they might expand their horizons, the ENTP in such situations can become morose, niggardly and obsessed with the most minor or intangible details – to the point where such minutiae fill their life and each day becomes a frustrating process of eliminating again and again the little problems which ever seem to stand in the way of the “big” picture – a picture which, as those around them know only too well, will never be realized.

Solutions

To grow as an individual, the ENTP needs to focus on carefully analyzing the information they receive via their Extraverted Intuition. They need to allow themselves sufficient time and space to relax with the ideas and possibilities they can see. It is all too easy for the ENTP to assume that what they see is what they need. Careful thinking can allow the ENTP to “suss out” the best possible ways to proceed out of all the possibilities that come to them. At the same time, even if they are not able to share them, ENTP’s need at least to understand the joys and satisfactions that others derive within those situations the ENTP would not normally choose in life. Awareness of the ways and needs of others can be the key to understanding the most life affirming way ahead for the ENTP, for there is always a danger that they might choose paths without regard to the feelings and needs of others close to them. The ENTP learns from analyzing his experience, so the best way for the ENTP to grow as a person is to develop his thinking capacity. Thus, that while the desire to run out and do something “new” is an ENTP pattern of need, this need must be integrated into a whole way of life in which the rest of our human needs and those of others who rely upon our presence are also satisfied. Your task, as a person interested in personal growth, is to understand yourself in a truly objective fashion, and how you can best give to the world, rather than just exploit the possibilities it bring to you.

The ENTP should always pay close attention to why they are acting upon new information. Are they acting out of a carefully considered motive to realize something truly worthwhile for themselves and others? Are they really seeking to improve life, or concerned with just making the next play, proving the point, showing others the moves or climbing the mountain just because it is there to climb, regardless of the consequences?

Living Happily in our World as an ENTP

The problems ENTPs might have fitting into the world are not usually directly related to friends or relationships. Rather, the ENTP has trouble maintaining a stable and consistent lifestyle. While this can affect love relationships, the ENTP usually has such an endearing and capable “way” about them that others tend to follow their lead, even in the most trying of situations. The problems the ENTP generates in life are those associated with their constant need for individuality, excellence and new experiences which test their talents. While this can place great demand upon relationships, tensions are usually only apparent where the ENTP has made a love match with a person whose security needs are greater than their ability to allow their ENTP partner the freedom they need. The self aware ENTP must therefore not only be careful in considering their career choices, but also in choosing a life situation with a partner. Of all the types, the ENTP is most uncomfortable with compromise and ought not to place themselves in situations which demand it. Most importantly the ENTP must become aware, through careful analysis of experience, just what kind of changes for the good or bad have been the direct result of their need for constant refreshment of life. Only through this awareness will the ENTP be able to focus on those perceptions which promise a better and more fruitful life.

Most ENTPs will experience career/life frustration and some relationship difficulties through their lives. The ENTP with well-developed Introverted Thinking will find these times easier to deal with. Accordingly, we offer some general suggestions for dealing with these difficulties, as well as some advice that will help the ENTP develop their Introverted Thinking.

Specific suggestions:

  • Take time to really listen to the thoughts of others and try to see how they understand the world. Think about the ways in which your view of the world and your needs can mesh with theirs.
  • Don’t expect others to simply follow you or expect that they should see what you can see as a worthy goal. A good exercise is to imagine yourself as a blind or severely disabled person. Try to get the feel of what it would be like to have to organize your life from such a different perspective. Would your goals still be valid? Would they need re-thinking? Consider the possibility that while your way of thinking leads you to see other types as having limited vision or ability, the truth is that they are no more limited than yourself, but simply have a differing focus in life and differing needs.
  • Realize and accept that for you a satisfying relationship will require you to attend to the small details of life and show an awareness of your partner’s feelings. You might find this difficult, but it will pay the biggest dividends in return for your effort.
  • Expanding your appreciation of the differences between people will expand your understanding of human expectations. Try to figure out the personality type of people that you know and encounter in your life.
  • Take care to listen to what people express within different social and work situations. Notice the different ways they go about their dealings with others or solving their problems. Do not try to compare or judge their ways against your own, simply try to recognize the many ways it is possible to be at peace in the world.
  • When having a conversation with a friend or relative, spend at least half of the time talking about them. Concentrate on really understanding where the person is coming from with their concerns. Ask questions.
  • Think of the people who are closest to you. Remember that they have their own passions, satisfactions and needs. Try to visualize what that person is doing, and narrow down to how they are feeling at this moment; to one thing they might be thinking about. Don’t pass judgment, just consider and reflect on why they might think or feel in just such a way.

Ten Rules to Live By to Achieve ENTP Success

1. Feed Your Strengths! Realize your gift of seeing past the obvious brings you a great capacity to reward yourself and others through your cleverness. Make sure you engage in activities and which can expose this potential at its most valuable level.

2. Face Your Weaknesses! We all have weaknesses. Recognizing your weaknesses for what they are (without beating yourself up) will give you the power to change your life for the better.

3. Talk Through Your Perceptions. Discussing what you see with others will them understand where you are coming from, and offer you the chance to discover the ways in which their input can balance your ideas.

4. Relax and Enjoy the View. Take the time to consider what you have, the gifts life has already brought to you. Try and discover the value and importance of those constant day to day things which support and nourish you.

5. Be Aware of Others Understand that everyone has their own lives and their own perspectives. Everyone has something to offer. Try to identify people’s personality type.

6. Recognize Norms and Structures Are Necessary. Remember that without the support and constancy of others, no-one can follow their dreams. The path you walk was laid by others, each of its stepping stones created to fulfill a different part of the human need for constancy and security. Without this support structure, you cannot go far.

7. Get Out of Your Comfort Zone Understand that the only way to grow is to get outside of your comfort zone. If you’re feeling uncomfortable in situation because it seems to be going nowhere, that’s good! That’s an opportunity for growth.

8. Identify and Express Your Feelings You may have a hard time understanding your feelings. It’s important that you try to figure this out. Don’t let people down. If you determine that you value a person, tell them so every time you think of it. This is the best way to make them feel secure in your affections, and so to promote a long-lasting relationship.

9. Be Accountable for Yourself Remember that no one has more control over your life than you have. Don’t be a victim.

10. Assume the Best, But Be Wary. Your positive attitude nearly always creates positive situations. Just remember: to make them lasting and worthwhile you must build them on solid, carefully planned foundations.

ENTP Relationships


Typically good-natured, upbeat and laid-back, ENTPs can be delightful people to be around. They get a lot of enjoyment and satisfaction from interacting with others, and especially enjoy discussing and debating theories and concepts which interest them. They may be prone to initiate arguments because they so enjoy the debate. They are generally fun-loving and gregarious, and can be quite charming. They have a problem with sometimes neglecting their close relationships when they become involved in the pursuit of a new idea or plan.


ENTP Strengths


  • Enthusiastic, upbeat, and popular
  • Can be very charming
  • Excellent communication skills
  • Extremely interested in self-improvement and growth in their relationships
  • Laid-back and flexible, usually easy to get along with
  • Big idea-people, always working on a grand scheme or idea
  • Usually good at making money, although not so good at managing it
  • Take their commitments and relationships very seriously
  • Able to move on with their lives after leaving a relationship


ENTP Weaknesses


  • Always excited by anything new, they may change partners frequently
  • Tendency to not follow through on their plans and ideas
  • Their love of debate may cause them to provoke arguments
  • Big risk-takers and big spenders, not usually good at managing money
  • Although they take their commitments seriously, they tend to abandon their relationships which no longer offer opportunity for growth


ENTPs as Friends


ENTPs can get along with almost all other types of people. They are intuitive about what makes others tick, although they generally lack the ability to sympathize or relate to others who do not see things the same way as the ENTP. They are flexible and easy-going, and genuinely enjoy interacting with others.

Although the ENTP is able to get along with a wide variety of people, they are likely to choose to surround themselves with people who are intelligent, capable, and idea-oriented. They love nothing better than engaging in a good debate with someone who can hold their end of the conversation. This will stimulate and energize the ENTP, who is highly competitive and loves to discuss theories.

Sometimes the ENTP falls into the habit of practicing “one-upmanship”. If this goes unchecked, it may cause a problem with friendships and close interpersonal relationships.

Bwah panjang banget! Hehehehe tapi Bagi penulis test ini menggambarkan hal yang bahkan sangat tersembunyi di dalam kepribadian ku yang tidak banyak orang pernah melihat sisi ini… Luar biasa bagaimana sebuah test sederhana yang diisi dengan jujur dapat membongkar hal-hal yang bahkan tidak pemilik kepribadian ketahui… ckckckck… :|

Kemarin hari Jumat salah seorang teman kami, R****, merayakan ulang tahunnya yang… kesekian… :D . Dan seperti biasa hari Jumat adalah hari soto, dimana kami (11 orang) biasanya sholat Jumat di kantor pos jalan Banda dan kemudian dilanjutkan dengan makan soto yang enak itu… slurp2. Tapi berhubung kemarin adalah hari yang sangat spesial maka teman kami Refki tersebut telah berbaik hati untuk mentraktir kami sebuah soto beserta teh botolnya! (We love you Ref!) :D

Dan sebagai gantinya dengan senang hati kami MENCARI BENCONG UNTUKNYA!!! :D

Sudah bukan rahasia lagi teman kami yang satu ini memang sangat TAKUT dan FOBIA terhadap makhluk Tuhan yang bergender pria tapi ingin disebut wanita ini… Mungkin berhubung ada kaitannya dengan masa lalu nya yang pahit dengan golongan yang pilihannya tidak tertera pada kolom sex hampir di semua isian quesioner yang ada di bumi ini… :D

Dan intinya, hari itu kami teramat beruntung karena berhasil menemukan 3-5 bencong di daerah simpang Kimia Farma Dago, Dan karena tempat duduk teman kami ini di sebelah jendela (yang tentu saja telah kami atur hihihihi) maka berebut kami menggoda bencong tersebut 2 kali di daerah tersebut. Sementara teman kami setengah mati berusaha menutup jendelanya kami (10 orang lainnya) berusaha membuka jendela tersebut… hihihi 2 kali proses tersebut berulang! Sampai teman kami menyumpah-nyumpah dalam bahasa Padangnya! :D

Tapi keberuntungan kami dalam hunting bencong tidak berhenti sampai disitu… Ketika kami mencoba ke turunan jalan layang pasteur, keberuntungan kembali menghampiri kami, kami menemukan lagi seorang waria sedang mengamen disitu… :D

Dan akhirnya kejadian pun berulang malah kali ini kami berhasil membujuk bencong itu untuk menyanyikan sebuah lagu buat teman kami ini serta membuatnya bersentuhan dengan mas eh mbak2 tersebut :D . Dan teman kami cuman bisa pasrah menerima kado ulang tahun kami… Dan selepas di kelas pun siksaan belum berhenti karena rekaman aksi tersebut diconvert (oleh penulis :D ) dan disebar ke mahasiswa lain di kelas… Bwakakakakaka :D sumpah puas banget hari itu penulis tertawanya! Walaupun kalau dipikir-pikir lagi hadiah ini sangatlah luar biasa kejam, tapi memang kami (termasuk si korban) merupakan pihak yang tidak punya perasaan untuk urusan kaya gini… Bwakakakakaka masih ketawa-ketawa sendiri kalau liat rekamannya! :D

p.s: kok bisa beruntung banget ya? Biasanya nyari satu bencong aja susahnya setengah mati dan setengah hidup tapi kemarin total kami menemui hampir 6 bencong… Betul2 hari yang spesial dan kado yang spesial… :D

Bangkit itu susah………
Susah melihat orang lain susah
Senang melihat orang lain senang

Bangkit itu Takut………
Takut untuk Korupsi
Takut untuk makan yang bukan haknya

Bangkit itu malu……….
Malu menjadi benalu
Malu minta melulu

Bangkit itu Marah………
Marah bila martabat bangsa dilecehkan

Bangkit itu Mencuri…….
Mencuri perhatian dunia dengan prestasi

Bangkit itu Tidak ada…..
Tidak ada kata menyerah
Tidak ada kata putus asa

Bangkit itu aku………..
aku untuk INDONESIAKU

gw suka banget sama puisi ini… dibawakan oleh Deddy MIzwar yang sangat legendaris… Dalam rangka 100 tahun hari kebangkitan nasional… wah top banget lah….

salut…

Selamat 100 tahun kebangkitan nasional Negaraku… Semoga kita benar-benar bisa bangkit… :)

Yup gw bukan cowok sensitif dan tidak pernah berniat menjadi salah satunya… Hal yang menjengkelkan terjadi beberapa hari lalu dimana salah seorang teman baikku bilang kira2 begini

Dasar lu Fred, ga sensitifan banget sih?

lalu dengan pdnya gw jawab

memang….

lalu dengan lebih pdnya lagi temen baik gw itu bilang kaya gini

parah lu Fred, kasian istri lu ntar, tersiksa lahir batin!

ANJRRIITTT!!!

banyak sih sebenarnya argumen yang bisa gw pake untuk mematahkan hipotesis terburu2 kaya gitu… beberapa diantaranya…

  1. Apa hubungannya kesensitifan seorang suami dengan kebahagiaan istrinya? Apakah hubungan ini linier, eksponensial, atau malah terbalik? Dan apakah sudah ada penelitian yang menghasilkan kesimpulan bahwa tingkat perceraian jauh lebih besar kepada pasangan yang suaminya itu pria sensitif??? harap diingat kami yang berdebat belum menikah bahkan masih jomblo… :D
  2. Apa definisi seorang pria itu sensitif? Apakah dengan bersikap cuek seorang pria bisa dikatakan tidak sensitif dan akhirnya dijudge sebagai makhluk yang tidak berperasaan?
  3. Gw percaya salah satu kekuatan seorang pria (dan ter kadang juga kelemahannya) adalah rasionalitasnya, sama dengan wanita dengan kesensitifan dan multitaskingnya… :D . So menganggap bahwa rasionalitas seorang pria sama dengan ketidaksensitifannya akan menyinggung pria seperti gw… :D
  4. dan berbagai argumen lainnya

Okelah kalaupun pada skenario terburuk seorang pria (dalam kasus ini gw!) memang tidak bisa dibilang makhluk yang sensitif dan tidak mempunyai hati (hehehe well my friend… sometimes it is so true :D ) tapi tetap aja menjudge ketidaksensitifan itu dengan ketidakpunyaan hati dan perasaan yang kemudian akan menuju ke ketidakbahagiaan istri tentu saja runtutan logika yang aneh…

Tapi okelah kalau pun gw memang bukan orang yang sensitif, dan memang cukup banyak juga bukti intrinsik yang membuktikan hal seperti itu seperti:

  1. Gw ini pelupa banget akan nama dan muka orang… Makanya kalau udah lama ga ketemu dan memang ga terlalu deket hampir pasti gw akan kesulitan mengingat nama si lawan bicara. Tapi bodohnya gw bisa tetap dengan cool membuat si lawan bicara tidak sadar bahwa gw itu ga inget namanya…. hehehe yah what you don’t know won’t hurt you… right? :D . Tapi percayalah teman, semua ini karena keterbatasan otak gw yang bener2 kesulitan dalam mengingat semua nama kalian… :)
  2. Gw ini lemot banget kalau menilai dan memprediksikan situasi… Udah beberapa kali gw gagal membedakan situasi yang serius dan main2 sehingga gw salah tindakan dan seringnya sih malah membuat temen gw ngamuk dan berantem (paling ga parah sih cuman buat suasana tegang aja)… Egh kalau ini sih masalahnya gw memang agak punya level bercandaan yang seringkali berbeda dari orang Indonesia lain… Yah ini sih hipotesis sementara gw… hey I have great sense of humor! :D
  3. Kadang kala (malah menjurus seringkali) gw berpikiran yang jauh banget dari mainstream cara pikir orang. Contoh terbaru adalah gw adalah pendukung kenaikan harga barang bbm dan memutuskan akan memilih SBY pada pemilu 2009 hanya karena dia berani menaikkan harga minyak! hehehe dilain pihak banyak yang marah dengan keputusan ini, dan tidak akan mendukung SBY untuk menjadi presiden 2009, karena kebijakan ini gw akan memilih SBY lagi nanti! Dan karena masalah ini juga temen gw yang sama menuduh gw kapitalis dan tidak punya perasaan (emang orang kapitalis ga punya hati???)… Padahal jangan salah gw anak kos juga salah satu elemen masyarakat yang paling keras kena dampak kebijakan ini… Udah ah kembali ke topik…

Tapi yah intinya I am who I am, and I like who I am, dan kalau dengan menjadi sensitif itu gw bisa disukai banyak orang namun dengan kehilangan sebagian yang gw sukai… gw lebih baik menjadi diri gw sendiri (mudah2an ga sampe membuat istri gw ntar tidak bahagia… :D )… Tapi gw masih percaya kok di beberapa hal gw bisa sangat sensitif (I’m still human being you know!)… hehehe… so to you all sensitif guy… ke lauuttt ajaaa :D

Kemarin baru selesai bertanding dalam permainan game online marketplace. Jadi dalam satu kelas (38A) terbagi atas 5 kelompok (kami menyebutnya sindikat), yang kemudian akan diadu dalam permainan game online ini. Game yang akan dimainkan adalah silmulasi business. Jadi kami dihadapkan pada skenario bahwa kami adalah pioner dalam bisnis komputer dunia. Masing2 dari kelompok diberikan modal yang kemudian akan dikelola dengan berbagai pilihan seperti bisnis pada umumnya.

Berbagai pilihan tersebut antara lain kami bersimulasi bagaimana caranya melakukan market research, melakukan test marketing, pembuatan produk, pengaturan advertising, pemilihan lokasi penjualan, dan beragam faktor lainnya. Silmulasi ini sendiri terdiri 8 quarter dimana setiap quarter kita diharuskan untuk memutuskan strategi yang harus diambil agar kita dapat mendapatkan hasil terbaik. Pemenang ditentukan dengan sistem balance scorecard dimana terdapat beberapa parameter untuk menentukan yang terbaik, antara lain financial performance, investing for future, market share, dll, sehingga tim yang terbaiklah yang menjadi pemenangnya, bukan hanya dilihat dari tim yang membukukan pendapatan paling besar.

Silmulasi ini total menghabiskan waktu 2 minggu, dimana tiap minggu terdapat 4 quarter. Untuk mempersingkat cerita akhirnya kami (Beyond Inc) yang memenangkan silmulasi bisnis ini yang menegangkan ini (total kami hanya menang 2,5 point berbanding saingan terberat kami Nexus). Banyak hal yang bisa kami dapat dalam silmulasi ini, antara lain kemampuan teknis dan pengalaman dalam silmulasi bisnis ini dan kerja sama tim. Tim kami benar2 diuji untuk mengambil keputusan yang cukup ketat dimana kami semua dipaksa dewasa dan bersuara dalam nama tim… Sebuah pengalaman yang cukup luar biasa… :)

and still we are the champion… :)

hihihi lagi males cerita cuman pengen pamer aja…. :D

Akhir-akhir ini dikarenakan tugas yang menumpuk dan beragamnya kegiatan akhir2, termasuk perang perpisahannya si Jaya, ini mengakibatkan penulis kekurangan waktu untuk beristirahat (ceilah sok sibuk gini… :P ). Hal ini diperparah dengan cuaca Bandung yang semakin lama semakin aneh saja, dari mulai hujan lewat yang kadang2 disertai es dan diselingi oleh cuaca terik… Ini pasti efek dari global warming… Makanya stop global warming now! :D . Dan akhirnya penulis terkena flu yang menyebalkan itu… Egghhh memang penyakit ini sangat menyebalkan… makan ga nafsu, tidur kaga enak, belajar kaga bergairah (kalau ini sih memang dari sananya… :D )

Tapi yah mau gimana lagi kalau seorang Napoleon dan Habibie hanya tidur 4 jam sehari masa penulis mau tidur lebih dari itu, tapi mungkin diperlukan management waktu yang sedikit baik lagi agar semua kepentingan bisa diseimbangkan tanpa mengorbankan salah satunya termasuk hidungku yang semakin meler ini… huhuhuhu…

p.s: Jay sudah gw berikan kekalahan yang patut dikenang kan? Gih latihan lagi jangan cupu lagi ya! :D … Oh ya sukses di Surabaya temanku… :)

udah ah lagi males nulis… efek flu juga :P

p.s: kok jadi ingat dengan seseorang yang bilang kalau flu itu penyakit orang bodoh ya? :P